Mike McHargue October 25, 2013 belief Wise Words on Parenting Mike McHargue October 25, 2013 belief “When you hold those perfect little babies in your hand, our job is not to say, ‘Look at her. She’s perfect. My job is just to keep her perfect and make sure she makes the tennis team by fifth grade and Yale by seventh grade.’ That’s not our job. Our job is to say, ‘look, you know what, you’re imperfect and you’re wired for struggle, but you are worthy of love and belonging.” — Brené Brown My website is a safe place for people whose beliefs about God are changing. Many are recovering from spiritual abuse or trauma. Please remain civil and kind in the comments section at all times.